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The Fear of Being Seen
We naturally crave to be seen, heard and felt. In our youngest years, we literally require it to survive. Some of us are in touch with this, and some of us are fortunate enough to receive it. Others of us have had to: Become numb to this desire to...

Giving What You’ve Never Received
Is it possible to give what you've never received? It is a paradox, and something of a miracle, but... the answer seems to be yes. Even if you feel like you've never experienced it, Kindness still lives in you, and can be extended to others....

The Filter of Self-Judgment (True Story)
A true story from several years ago revealed much to me about self-judgement. Not only how intense it can be, but the 'filter' unconsciously turns on when perceiving something from me versus someone else. The Story I had just finished a live...

Do I Really Have to Believe It Will Work?
https://youtu.be/sAKgxydxvtk In your meditation, inner work or spiritual practice, you may have heard: You have to believe the process is going to work You have to believe you will heal Your belief will create the reality Fear and it will appear I...

The Problem (and Appeal) of Non-Duality
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxA9ZK76tgY Non-duality is a very deep exploration of the nature of reality itself. It’s not about “we are all one” in the sense of us all being made of stardust or the way we are interconnected. It’s exploring the...

You Have Not Failed
You have not failed. There's a common theme I have seen in my calls, conversations, and of course working on myself... underneath it all, there is an idea, a feeling, that we have failed at something. You've been doing all of this work on yourself....

Not Healing? You’re Not “Doing it Wrong”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZoxjPcXWtWg If you feel like you haven’t healed yet, physically, mentally, emotionally… Please do NOT assume you are doing something wrong. In our journey of self-healing and inner work, we will learn many...

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome – You are NOT Weak or Lazy
Even if you have a diagnosis of chronic fatigue syndrome, it is not uncommon to judge yourself as being weak, lazy, or that you should be able to 'push through.' I have had more than one person share this with me, and as harsh as it can sound...